You're never disoriented

You're never disoriented. Believe me, I'll explain why.
His life through the eyes of others always look, different from how you see it. And vice versa.
However life, yours, mine, of any person, is composed of paths, like railroad tracks.
So imagine that looking at the intersection of dozens of train tracks, pointing to different directions. Consider that each of these is an option in life, evaluate each one, then delete each of which seem wrong, inappropriate, unrealistic, dangerous and unsatisfactory. Of the few that are left, consider the less feasible, then delete them. The other, keep those that are possible, the probable and desirable. Try the first possible if haywire, try again, now the likely, one will eventually lead you at some point in the life desirable.
Just keep trying, because if you stop trying, that's the end.